Yet another very sophisticated facet of greed is
expecting or demanding favors in return for the favors bestowed. Superficially
it seems to be very logical, you help me and I will help you. However deep
inside the motives are very selfish.
Firstly unreciprocated generosity even exists?
Yes it does. But not for greedy people. For selfless individuals the world has
a way of returning favors called "karma ". "Carry out a
random act of kindness, with no expectation of reward, safe in the knowledge
that one day someone might do the same for you.” Princess Diana.
Everybody’s has heard of what goes around comes around . Doing good will
ultimately bring good in your favor without any expectation. But if you are
expecting a return from the very beginning than that trait is not virtue but a
vice all dressed up to deceive. If one does a favor and expects something in
return than it is notThis was another simple example how greed affects us without us even being aware of it. How convenient for us to help someone whom we know can return the favor tomorrow, and how difficult for us to just be on the giving end. This affect is most commonly observed in the western culture especially affecting the new immigrants. In my experience I have actually observed a few angels who continue helping people without “getting paid for it”. And I have also witnessed sugar coated devils who will help you once and make you return the favor atleast five times ,or worse will only appear in scene when they know they will actually benefit from it . And as soon as they discover that there is nothing in it for them, they disappear like a poltergeist. One can actually categorize ones self just by thinking deep right into our motives before extending a helping hand. This world is in shortage of selfless people and by diagnosing this issue and mere restricting ourselves to taking advantage of the other individual ,we can help create more friendly environment.
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